On the nightstand {2013}
Who will influence you this year? The people you spend time with are the most significant influences in your life. And while we don’t always have a choice about who we spend time with in person, we do have a choice about who we spend time with on the screen and on the page. What blogs will you follow? What shows will you watch? And, my personal favorite: Whose words will you let wash over you this year?
This past year I was thankful to read the following books. These are the ones I’d recommend to you (top picks have *); it was time well-spent in their pages:
- *Half the Sky: turning oppression into opportunity for women worldwide
- The Glass Castle (fascinating memoir!)
- From Eternity to Here: Rediscovering the ageless purpose of God
- *Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a relentless God
- One Million Arrows: Raising your children to change the world
- The Missional Mom:Living with purpose at home & in the world
- The Attentive Life: Discerning God’s presence in all things (haven’t finished yet–yikes sorry Danielle!)
- Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A year of food life
- Love Does: Discover a secretly incredible life in an ordinary world
- Unfinished: Believing is only the beginning (coming in May!)
- *No longer a Slumdog: Bringing hope to children in crisis (FREE!)
- *Reese Howells, Intercessor:The story of a life lived for God
- *The Circle-Maker: Praying circles around your biggest dreams and greatest fears
- The Lost Art of Listening: How learning to listen can improve relationships (haven’t finished yet)
- Love Has a Face: Mascara, a machete, and one woman’s miraculous journey with Jesus in Sudan.
- The Friendship of Women: The beauty and power of God’s plan for us
Annual re-reads include The Pursuit of God by AW Tozer and Humility by Andrew Murray.
Also, 2011’s list is here, if you’re looking for more great reads AND a Fifteen Fiction books are here in case you’re looking for some fun sprinkled in with the serious stuff.
- Bringing Up Girls: Practical advice and encouragement for those shaping the next generation of women
- Love-Powered Parenting: Loving your kids the way Jesus loves you
- The Mother At Home (written 1833!)
- The Mind of Christ: The transforming power of thinking His thoughts
- A Severe Mercy
- The Well-Trained Mind: A guide to classical education at home
- Sacred Mundane: A quotidian revolution for women everywhere
The Hawk and the Dove
This is a huge statement, but right now I’m reading the most amazing, life-changing fiction book I have ever read. I had no idea … It’s sat on my mother-in-law’s bookshelf for as long as I can remember. It looked a little odd, the cover looking like it had a Lord of the Rings flavor to it. Then in November, a friend who loves books suggested I read this trilogy called the Hawk and the Dove (click there to see it at Amazon–it’s only $10). Okay, fair enough. It started really slow, and so I started it several times then tucked it away for another time. Several weeks ago, I picked it back and up and decided I’d better give it another chance. I had no idea what I was in for. Now, after every chapter I have to battle the temptation to sit down and try to somehow convey the power and brilliant insight that each chapter portrays. Every chapter leaves me with this aching, with increasing awareness of who God is, what love is, and who I long to be.
The book is simple. A girl is relaying various stories told to her by her mother. Stories of a certain Brigittine monastery, and a certain Abbot Peregrine, a broken man in every way, and the lives of the men under his care. Their lives are so varied, that I see myself in every single one. But most of all the abbot, the broken abbot, is so profoundly Christlike, it’s amazing. I read this book and cannot help but mourn when I consider how far I am from scraping the surface of Christlikeness and humility.
Tonight’s chapter, though, had me weeping in repentance. God’s Wounds it is called. In it we read of a simple story. A boy, privileged, pampered, and spoiled, who comes to see the true utter wretchedness of himself in the presence of God. The story was like holding up the most exposing mirror I have ever seen. My selfishness, self-centeredness, vanity, pride literally made me feel nauseous. I don’t say this to scare you away from reading the book–perhaps to someone like you who is a little less wretched than myself it won’t be so convicting! But not every chapter is like this–it’s also funny, insightful, touching. It gives glimpses into the intricate folds of humanity like nothing I’ve ever read. And it understands the majesty of the glorious God we serve like nothing I’ve ever seen.
So, I think I’d actually qualify this as a plea–read this book. Please read this book. And persevere through the very beginnning. I’d love to hear from anyone else who’s read it. And thanks to Linnea and to Janie. I had no idea what I was in for …